December 30, 2017

WHERE HAVE I BEEN? | An explanation



It’s been a tough couple of weeks and Blogmas was a disaster. I really didn’t see that coming….
A lot of things have happened that made me stop doing Blogmas. I know, I know, shame on me.
But please have the patience, get yourself a drink, sit down and read my explanation.

First of all, let’s blame school again. We had so so many tests and exams which were very difficult. I really tried my best to be a good student (ahem…no…) and I got a comment saying ‘’Sad that you didn’t know that’’ on my corrected test. Great! What a good way to motivate your students! But not to completely complain about everything, I got good marks, too. That’s, however not the point. I want to give you reasons why I went offline for such long time. Everything just got out of control and too much. The school, my friends, family etc.
Like the incurable illness of my dog. It had cancer and there was no way to cure it. We actually did some operations, e.g. taking the whole tail off but unfortunately, they didn’t help. So, it passed away. I know this may sound stupid to some of you but this wasn’t just a dog for me. I mean, I grew up with it and almost spend my whole childhood with it.
Another reason why I only wrote 5 days of Blogmas is that I got ill too and when your head and stomach heart so bad you can’t even stand up properly and you have nausea all the time, you probably don’t want to go out shooting in a new outfit and write about it. The only thing I did was sleeping. I also had a big argue with a friend I barely see anymore and it seems like everyone around me gets ill. So does my grandpa, he has cancer…
Now, don’t get me wrong, I am not writing this to show you how crap life can get but to kind of explain this situation. Trust me, my life has been more shitty than this.

But after all I want to give thanks to you. I appreciate that you read my posts and leave me sweet comments. I am glad you like my work and are such loyal followers. I wanted to write a post about being one year a blogger (yes, my blog’s now one year old! Can’t really believe it…) and celebrating my blog’s first birthday but with the explanations above I think, you get why I didn’t do that. I 'll however, do it someday, I just don’t exactly know when. I always promise you things but 50% I break it. Being a student nowadays where I live is very time consuming. So, I hope you understand that. Although it’s difficult as I said before, I am trying to post regularly like once a week. I actually have some written and finished posts on my laptop waiting to be released.
Who knows what 2018 will bring us…



A happy new year and cheers to good upcoming posts in 2018!
Lots of love as always,
Victoria xx 




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  1. Love that t-shirt.

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  2. Stay strong!! I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you
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    1. Thank you so so much!
      Love,
      Victoria

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  3. Very beautiful dear!
    Have a happy new year.
    Xx Caroline
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  4. It doesn't sound stupid, pets are part of the family! So sorry for your loss xx

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    1. Thanks so much! I really appreciate your comments.
      Xx Victoria

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  5. I have a pet and I would be extremelly sad if anything happened to her! I completelly understand and offer my condolences! I hope 2018 brings a lot of great things for you! And don't worry about taking a few days off, being a student can get pretty hectic!

    Love,
    Olga from Myme

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    1. Thanks a lot! Your comments really help me!
      X Victoria

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  6. That teacher's snarky comment was inexcusable - they should have known better. There is a big difference between constructive criticism, which can serve a purpose, and destructive criticism, which has no place in education.
    I'm so sorry to read that your dog passed away. and about your grandpa having cancer. Those are hard things for anyone to deal with.
    Congratulations on having your one year blogiversary!!! Happy blog birthday!
    Best wishes for your year 2018!

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    1. Thank you so much! Your comments really mean much to me!
      Happy new year to you too!
      Xx Victoria

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  7. Dogs are part of the family. I can totally understand your heartbreak. Life can be sooo overwhelming at times. For 2018, I wish you peace and relief from all of life's stresses! <3

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    1. Thanks so much! You too the best wishesfor 2018!
      Love,
      Victoria

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  8. I'm so sorry to hear about your dog & your Grandfather. I hope that things get better for you soon... I have had plans to blog more often before & then it doesn't end up happening for whatever reason (usually illness or weather). I have found that it's easier to plan as much ahead as possible but not get down if you end up having to cancel some things. It's totally understandable! <3

    Kara Aragon
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    1. I appreciate your comment and am so glad for your support! Thanks a lot!
      Xx Victoria

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  9. Sometime we have to take a break to deal with life. So sorry about your dog and grandfather. Hope you have a happy New year!

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    1. Thank you very much! I hope you have a happy new year too!
      Love,
      Victoria

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  10. So sorry for your loss gorgeous. I know 2018 will be a much better year for you and you look lovely :) http://www.bauchlefashion.com/2017/12/the-new-years-eve-edit-parisian-2018.html

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    1. Thanks a lot for your support and motivation! I believe too that 2018 will be much better since it has already started better. I hope you have a happy new year!
      Xx Victoria

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  11. So sad to hear about your dog, lady- pups become part of the family, for sure, so it's devastating to lose them. Sending you lost of love!

    -Ashley
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    1. Thank you so so much for your support! I really appreciate it!
      A happy new year to you!
      Love,
      Victoria

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    1. Thank you, Caitlin!
      X Victoria

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  13. I'm sorry about your dog.
    Happy New year!!
    xoxo

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    1. A happy new year to you too!
      X Victoria

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  14. Sorry to hear about your dog. Totally understandable, sometimes life will just get in the way. Wishing you a Happy New Year girl!!!

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    1. Thanks a lot for your support! I wish you a happy new year too!
      Xx Victoria

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  15. Very good post, Happy New Year!.
    xo

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  16. Happy New Year! So sorry about your dog. Continue to stay strong.

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  17. Good wishes to you this year dear
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  18. I also have many test in my school now :/ Great post and pretty picture <3

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  19. Everybody needs a break every once in a while! And it's important to put your education, school, and health before your online life anyways! Blogging got tough for me as well and I have yet to do a new post, but it'll happen soon enough. Can't wait to see what's next for your blog, and happy blog birthday!

    Shann Eileen | www.shanneileen.com

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    1. Thanks loads for your support! It means the world to me! A happy new year to you and good luck with your blog too!
      Xoxo Victoria

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  20. I feel so sorry for you. Stay strong!!
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  22. Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about how tough things have been for you. I can't imagine losing my dog, the pain must be immense. It sounds like everything happened at once - completely understandable that you'd take time off from blogging to deal with everything life was throwing at you. Don't stress about it too much, blogging is always here when you have time, it doesn't go away if you need a break! Happy blogiversary too, hope you get organised and feel better about celebrating it soon.

    Hope that you are having a lovely weekend! Another extreme weather weekend here. So hot, we are staying near the air conditioner.

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    1. Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support and am a thousand times thankful!
      Lots of love,
      Victoria

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  23. I love all about this blog, great post!

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